Monday, October 22, 2007

Welcome To The Department Of Redundancy Department

  • I'm still miserable.
  • Haven't found an apartment I like.
  • Wish I had more friends out here.
  • Still ache for his touch.
  • Pumpkin cheesecake couldn't even take my pain away.
  • I literally can't think about anything else.
  • Let alone blog about anything else.
  • ::edit:: after reading KLC's post today - I'll probably be spending Thanksgiving alone.
  • It's been a week.
  • ONLY a week.
  • Do you still love me?

Now you can all stop reading my blog because woe is me, I know I'm a pathetic POS who needs to pull herself up and dust herself off. Debbie Downer times twelve.

41 comments:

Ashley said...

ooh hunnie. it's ok to wallow. we all need to do that after a break-up. you are definitely not pathetic.

cry about it all you want - we will listen.

Tina Vaziri said...

I will not stop reading! You'll find an apartment and move on whenever you are ready. There is no deadline on getting over a breakup. <3 Still love ya!

thecasualperfectionist.com said...

Of course we still love you! (Well, I can only speak for Claire and myself...) ;)

Hang in there!

Slightly Disorganized said...

of couse. i heart you.

Miriam said...

Dude! Skybus just made Greensboro a hub. Which means even cheaper flights to CBus.

Hang in there. It will get easier. And seriously you will find that crazy bachelorette pad apartment that will have people drooling! I promise.

Making my way in PA said...

I have heard that it takes twice as long as you were together to get over a person. So if you were together 1 year, it takes you two years to get over them. Give yourself time. It is the only thing that heals. I am sure pumpkin cheesecake tastes pretty damn good though!

Katelin said...

i found out one good thing for you (that i just ranted and blogged about, haha). but joshua jackson is going to be on grey's anatomy! now i see you're a josh fan, don't know about grey's, but i love them both. so that's a good thing.

but good luck with the apartment search and i know things will look up soon. :)

Miss M. said...

i still heart you and have checked your blog about 16 times for an update. so don't get freaked out if you see about 20 entries on your stats counter from st. paul, mn.

mcgee said...

take all the time you need. OF COURSE we still love you. i ain't going nowhere.

Kristen said...

hang in there. it will get better. promise.

Heidi said...

well i still think you're fabulous :) for whatever thats worth <3

Michelle said...

Looks like you haven't tried pumpkin coffee. ;)

You'll make it. One day very soon you'll be writing a post authored by Debbie Downer when the landlord at the new apartment of your dreams calls to say, "so, when can you move in?" And when you get there, mysteriously, the rest of the complex is occupied by hot, available, straight guys who all think you're awesome.


Hey, it could happen!

Randi said...

Bless your heart:(Of course I will keep reading. I am so sorry your are going through this stuff. HUGS to you dear!!

courtney said...

I don't know about everyone else but *I* certainly still love you! :)

Jess said...

Duh, of course we still love you, and also, given that it's only been a week, I think you're coping extremely well. Also again, this is your blog and your space to write about what you're feeling, and if this is what you're still feeling, then you should keep writing it. And we will all still be here reading.

Lisa said...

girl, you'd have to steal my password and remove yourself to get off my RSS reader

La said...

You absolutely deserve a little time to grieve. It's not going to happen overnight. Hang in there, and of COURSE we still love you! :)

onebigholiday said...

aw babe, i'm so sorry. You can take as much time to deal with this as you want. There is no time limit. I'm glad you got the book, hopefully it helps.

Marriage-101 said...

Michelle - You're doing it all wrong! Chocolate and Ice Cream! Chocolate and Ice Cream! Pumpking cheesecake is great, but it can't cure broken hearts like Chocolate and Ice Cream!!

It's okay, we still love you!

Angela said...

You've just got to take all the time you need and your legions of supportive readers will be here with you throughout :) I definitely second that chocolate and ice cream recommendation thought...

nancypearlwannabe said...

Lady Day, please don't think we won't keep reading! You can write sad posts for a year and I'll still come back.

Of course, you will not be sad for a year. But you know what I mean. :)

grungedandy said...

It’s ok to feel like this we've all been there and we all still love you! Like you really have to ask! I promise it will get better you just have to give it time, be strong & I find chocolate ice cream helps! Loads of hugs & sympathy *G*

Clink said...

WE LOVE YOU.

Get through it at your own pace. We'll be here every step of the way.

The Mouse said...

Bah! You are not a POS, pathetic, or otherwise. You are a woman with a broken heart. It sucks. The way that you are feeling and dealing is the right way for you.

We love you. Your sisterhood stands united around you. You are not alone. Blog away about it / him / stuff everyday until you don't need to anymore. Loyal friends will not leave you. :)

The Lisa Show said...

Wish I could hug you. Not going anywhere. I don't scare easily, remember? Haha. Kidding. Heart you.

distracted spunk said...

Just do what you have to do that gets you through the day. We'll still be here at the end of it.

Princess Pointful said...

It is called guilt-free wallowing, darling!
We love you even more because you're human, just like us.
Though I want to find you some better cheesecake.

QueenBee said...

We're not going anywhere, I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY! It's only been a week, you can possibly expect to get over something to quickly, can you?

L Sass said...

Michelle... give yourself a break! This just happened. You're fully allowed to still be Debbie Downer.

Now is the time to be an obnoxious, aggressive friend maker. I know that just having random friend-events on my calendar makes me feel better.

Big Hugs!

Julie Q said...

[hugs] from boston! Cheer up girly! We still heart you :)

libby said...

LOVE.YOU!
and haha your title is hilare! you're justified as deb downer. not to worry - feel cheerier soon m'dear!!

Ashley said...

Oh of COURSE we still love you!! Keep your chin up, its only been a week but it'll get better. I promise! xoxo

rachel said...

we will not stop reading or loving you. it's only been a week. this is a big time in your life... its a big thing.

it takes time time time.

we love you.

and anyway, debbie downer is hilarious :)

elysa said...

come having thanksgiving with me! actually i'd share my friends too if you decided to move :D

sweetanemone said...

michelle, even though everyone else has already said it, there are no deadlines for getting over anything and it has been a week! so feel free to wallow until you feel better... while it's hard, it really does improve, i promise! and you will find a fabulous apartment and make fabulous new friends and have a fabulous life... there is no way that great things are not going to happen to a chick like you!

please keep posting too... blogging is about life, not keeping your readers happy, even though we are all happy when you write :)

big hugs for you!

stilettoheights said...

It's ok to be woe is me, trust me...I have no friends out here either, I am having a party next week you can come to????

Princess Extraordinaire said...

I still love you I still love you!! Hangi there - I know you will get through this....come spend Thanksgiving with me :)

cady said...

it's ok to be sad for a while. i always was. we're here for you! *hugs*

Ashlie said...

When pumpkin cheesecake doesn't work you KNOW there's issues. I'm sorry chicha.... If you want to come to Baltimore you can have Thanksgiving with me :)

Jenni said...

Don't EVER worry about being redundant...

And you're NOT pathetic!

We're all here for you! :)

Samantha said...

{{{hugs}}} cry all you want sweetie. and blog about it all you want too. more {{{hugs}}} from the west coast.